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SOCIAL LIFE
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Village life is tied together through cooperation and socializing.
The survival of the village depends on the villagers sharing
and helping each other. Everyone is related in some way, so
the whole village is like a big family. People help each other
with their work and when they are not working, they spend
most of their time socializing--talking and joking and telling
stories.
Neighbors share meals and and help look after each others'
children. Children often spend the night in their friends'
or relatives' houses. If children behave badly outside the
home, any adult can discipline them and will report the misbehavior
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The villagers gather together
to celebrate holidays, to celebrate weddings and births, to
mourn deaths, to bid farewell to travelers and to greet them
upon their return. The whole village participates in these
events. In large gatherings, men and women tend to socialize
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A wedding celebration
in the village lasts for days. Everyone joins in preparing
the food and decorating the bride's and groom's houses. Older
women supervise all the wedding activities; they are the bearers
of the wedding traditions through which the bachelor enters
a new status in family and village life.
Older women, and then other relatives, put henna on the hands
and feet of the groom and his friends before the wedding.
This is the only time that men use henna. (see
more about the use of henna
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All the men gather at the mosque for the
signing of the marriage contract. |
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Girls and women wait outside
the bride's room while the bride is being prepared inside.
When the bride is ready, the groom enters, and the couple
emerges together. They go sit in the middle of the crowd,
where the older ladies wait with a tray of ritual objects.
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The tray includes incense, perfumes, oil,
and a kind of dough. While everyone crowds around to watch,
the older ladies anoint the couple with oil, perfume, and
the dough. |
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After the ceremony, the bride and groom
go together to the room in the bride's house which has been
specially prepared for them for their honeymoon. |
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The day after the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom
walk to the Nile, with the rest of the village in procession.
The couple enters the water, where they wash their hands and
feet. The crowd on the bank cheers, and tries to splash the
couple. Entering the Nile water is a very important symbolic
act in the marriage ceremonies. |
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